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Sunday, January 2, 2011

Pleasing the Sensual Woman

With Love, to Men,

  I hear you, and I know how you want to please. I also know how to get there. Slow down to begin. I feel for you, and my heart breaks. Be not so rushed, it seems many want sex over and out of the way, as if there were something better to do. Really?


  That will help us more than anything. We are empathic and will get a rush from you. Nothing is missing or need be added. You are enough. We've chosen you. Let me say that again, We've chosen you, and for good reason. We want you. We're ok. We're right here, I promise.

Let me take you there.

   Under the veils of society, and duty, there is Woman.
   She's there, though silent (even while shouting orders at kids) and often scarcely alive. The complication you see is in our very simplicity.
   Functioning, as we are sensual beings, within the realms of rules - is the ultimate sadistic act, exceedingly abnormal and grossly perverse. We even get pats on the back for being last, for hurting ourselves and in turn hurting you.

We need you ..
    ...desperately just like you need us to remind us of our gifts, our beauty and our pleasure. Underneath the world we carry, we live and love freely.  We need you to put us first when we forget. Don't let our independence fool you.  We need you to strip us of the weight of the day, the rules of censorship and laws of acceptability. Throw these uninvited guests far...far  away. Let us know that it's ok with you, that our desires are  safe with you, because we get frightened too. Let us glow for who we are free of the dust of life. Our strength is in our ability to surrender to our own pleasures. Give us a place, give us your audience, a sacred state of obscenity to breathe. Encourage us to be decadently selfish. That's where we need to be. Free us of expectation, judgment and pressure to live, love, and touch in acceptance.

 Let us simply be,

    ....and we return home to our sensuality.
   We can join in your world like all of the others we move in, but come into ours to see us as we really are. The rhythms start slower, but it's also much hotter and wetter, the breathing is deeper and the orgasm is soooooooo muchhhhh longerrrrrr....   
   Give us time, and patience, and we'll get there on our own. We can't help but get there. There's no other place to go. Where, if you are fortunate, you'll wait. If not, shhhh...Many of us finish while you sleep.

We're built for sensuality.

    I wonder at times if the Universe preferred women somehow for the gifts we were given of ecstasy. We dance in our own curves, decadently move within our boundlessness, and undulate in unintended steps. When we invite, and beware...we will, join us in this feast of senses, the other half of sex. With ease, we'll take you with us. It is not something we try or you need work for. Sensuality is what we are. We swim in our own juices, revel in our own bodies, and create heat of our own desire. Take credit if you like, and we will give it freely. smiles.Your work is in the acceptance you give us, but your real task is simply... to enjoy.
tina jones


  1. Your heart knows in silence the secrets of the days and the nights.
    But your ears thirst for the sound of your heart's knowledge.
    You would know in words that which you have always known in thought.
    You would touch with your fingers the naked body of your dreams.

    And it is well that you should.
    The hidden well-spring of your soul must needs rise and run murmuring to the sea;
    and the treasure of your infinite depths would be revealed to your eyes.
    But let there be no scales to weigh your unknown treasure;
    And seek not the depths of your knowledge with staff or sounding line.

  2. Ron,
    Tip of the hat to a very well written and touching post! It made me smile.

  3. As always....your insights....refreshing as always...i have missed them ....Thank You for pointing me here *smile*...and i agree...
    very well done Ron...
    I must admit,it's a breath of fresh air to see you able to "really" speak without the worry of replies that this would have garnered back "ahem" at the other place...*chuckles*

    Now that i have arrived *pulls a chair up*
    Let the discussions....begin

    The sensual woman is the purest gift a man could hope to experience...with it comes a bond that is unlike any other.
    I think too many men observe in the modern mainstream "that" which is stereotypical of a woman in these modern times...a much harder shell...and as you stated...patience is definitely a virtue that seems to be lacking on many "men's" part.From my observations,i would have to state that this comes mostly from the impatience of vanity,or lack of desire for a real/permanent bond....thus moving ever on to the next "fix" as it were.
    We often find in many ways,that the world is a much bigger,wonderful place,when we allow ourselves to slow down and see it.

    Jim aka Midnight

  4. Jim, Spoken with finess and thoughtfulness! Thankyou! I'd like to see you start your own blog. You're a very good writer!

  5. I'd be dishonest if i said it didn't grab my curiosity i won't say that...*laugh*.
    Yes...i will definitely be starting one..someone has to watch over your pursuit of the pork utopia *smile*

  6. By the way....Happy New Year...
    i hope your holidays went very well *smile*

  7. As you wish.... *smile*

  8. Jim, I love it!! I can't wait to read more of your blogs.